I announced that I wasn’t ever going to have anal sex when I was 19.
A friend, older, much more sexually experienced than me, told me that I was wrong. ‘Of course you will’ she said. ‘You can’t go through your entire life without ever having anal. Besides. You’ll like it.’
Now, on one level she was right. I did try anal sex, and it was fine. But on a much bigger level, she was wrong. She was wrong to tell me that it was inevitable to try anal sex, or that I would like it.
There is literally nothing wrong with not wanting anal. There is nothing wrong with… Read the full story